Some close personal thoughts...I don't really even know how to start this piece.:-(
Oh, you may even want to leave now,if you're someone that's perhaps a little afraid to get teary eyed over the loss of a family member of really close personal friend...
My foundations have been brutally tremor'd. My heart has been squeezed roughly and my poor ol' brain seems to have developed a few short circuits way down in it's deeply rooted recesses. It's a fact that life can change for any of us, in an instant. At any time. Could be a good change, bad change or anything in between. We are Not the master of when or how that change comes to us as the following thoughts may perhaps illustrate...
I was SO saddened and heart broken to hear recently somehow through the internet, that my long time best friend had suddenly left this jumbled up old earthly world. Wait! Hey! That's not supposed to happen, that can't be right, I remember thinking. My buddy Marce is simply way too healthy for any of that stuff to be right. Dis-belief and anger at the thought, flashed through my mind over and over as I read of how his last day with us, at least, was up at his beloved bush camp on Donnagana Lake.
Here's what I stumbled on and read that day...
Marcel Edmond Lalonde
LALONDE, Marcel Edmond - The Lalonde family announces with sorrow, Marcel's death at his camp on Donnagana Lake, Wednesday, November 4, 2009 at the age of 60 years. Son of the late Edmond and of the late Nilca (née Otis) Lalonde. Beloved husband of Jacqueline Lalonde (née Rochette) of Chelmsford. Loving father of Andy Lalonde (fiancée Chantelle Pelletier) and Michelle Johnston (Kevin) both of Chelmsford. Dear brother of Colette Picard (Hervé) of Dowling. Predeceased by his sister Lise Siblock (late Vic). Sadly missed by his grandchildren Haven and Dawson. Lovingly remembered by many nieces, nephews, relatives and friends. He enjoyed fishing and hunting and was a former member of the Chelmsford Fish & Game Association. Marcel was a retired miner after 32 years of service with Falconbridge Mines. The family will receive relatives and friends at the CO- OPERATIVE FUNERAL HOME, 4691, R R 15, CHELMSFORD, Sunday evening from 7-9:30 p.m. Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated Monday, November 9, 2009 at 2:00 p.m. in St-Joseph Church, Chelmsford. 11727532
Well,that was most likely the place Marce would have picked to go, if given the choice. So that, was sort of cool I thought maybe. You see, I too have entertained similar thoughts over the years of spending some of my last days up on Crooked Lake, where I spent my wonderful early days surrounded in nature because of my most gracious and adopted Aunt Siiri,so that at least sort of made some kind of sense to me. I guess.
You see friend, Marcel Lalonde, I am very proud to say, at one time was my very best friend and actual real life hero as well. I so looked up to this guy. Marce, as I used to mostly call him, was a really personable kind of guy from the get go, that could best me in almost every way and yet he would never let his finely honed ego get in our way. Marce would always get a kick out of smiling while thanking me for being there with him and revealing the budding talents that I was developing while he was right there to share in my accomplishments. He was indeed, perhaps even without knowing it, my Real World Sensei helping me, right there, to prepare for my future as it turned out. I most certainly learned much about respect for another person and also how they should also earn it just as we should all strive to practice the same. I also absorbed much and confirmed a lot about really powerful things like just how deep true feelings and love for the Great Outdoors can go, through this remarkable man.
Marcel has helped me in so many ways, to mold me as it turns out, into who I am to this day. We shared a very powerful Outdoorsy bond we did,like blood brothers. We never seemed to disagree on anything. Almost like one mind, sometimes. One of our first trips together, I still remember to this very day, riding with a 25 pound pack on my back,on the back of Marcel's awesome little 100cc Twin-Jet Yamaha motorcycle. We fairly flew up ol' highway #144 heading north for Sandcherry Creek to fish for those beautiful Speckled Trout. Turns out we caught a passle of them that day with Marcel catching a real hog over three pounds. He just loved Specks and fishing for them. We cooked some over the coals of our little stream side fire there in the early evening and totally agreed that this was all we both ever really wanted to do in life. Oh the desires of youth eh. Then again, I still feel that way to-day. So it's good to know even now that Marcel and I were both on the right track back then...Amen brother Marce!
I can still hardly believe Marcel has really left us. He was always So healthy, mentally & physically as well as spiritually. Besides his tremendous love for all the outdoors Marcel was also a very accomplished, gymnast, wrestler and a well rep'd street fighter in those early years of our lives together. This amazing man only 16 and 17 at the time, could totally mesmerize and inspire people with completely impromptu handsprings, cartwheels, back flips and his classic running, full tilt at and right up, a wall and flipping over to land on his feet again. All the while, he'd be smiling & laughing with the sheer enjoyment of performing his flawless flying feats. He would do this whenever it pleased him, always in full command of his senses and abilities. Marcel just loved seeing people happy and he gained pleasure from sharing in the enjoyment of others. Being so big hearted he ensured that he was a well loved man from the Sudbury valley.
Many of the deep underground miners from Falconbridge worked with my friend Marce over a long career and all I can say to any and all of them is, You guys were real lucky and very fortunate to have spent so much time, even at work, with this truly remarkable fellow worker of yours. I know Marcel rubbed off on y'all and influenced you too like he did me. Keep him in your hearts too now, ok boys!
Oh Marcel, I so miss you. Thank you with all my heart for being in my life when you were ol' friend. You will always be in my heart, until my last breath. I do believe for sure, that we will indeed meet again somewhere in the great heavenly bush by the side of a Spec stream my man, I just know it.
Your friend forever,
LarryB
Marcel has left the lake...